Nader alMaleh

WRITING / PERSONAL

PERSONAL SEP 2026 · 3 MIN

A reset still has bills to pay.

Changing direction can be the right decision. You still need to protect the part of your life that pays for the change.

A worn blue wooden chair repaired with a bright orange leg in a sunlit mint-green room.

The announcement is the easy part.

A new direction. A new business. A fresh start.

You can write that in a paragraph. Living through it takes longer.

I have started businesses, left partnerships, sold operations and changed direction more than once. I understand the attraction of drawing a clean line and deciding that everything on the other side will be different.

But a reset does not cancel your responsibilities. The bills do not wait for the new idea to become clear.

That is why I am careful with advice that tells people to burn every bridge to prove they are serious.

Keep something that can carry you

A business that pays your bills is doing something important, even if it is no longer the thing you want to do forever.

You may need to improve it, simplify it or change your role in it. You may eventually need to leave it.

But dismissing it because it does not fit the exciting new story can make the transition much harder than it needs to be.

I would ask what is genuinely wrong with the current situation before deciding what to remove. Is the work itself the problem? The way it is priced? The people involved? The amount of responsibility sitting with one person?

Those answers lead to different decisions.

Replacing the entire business can feel decisive. Sometimes a more specific change would solve the actual problem.

PROTECT WHAT SUPPORTS YOU WHILE YOU BUILD WHAT COMES NEXT.

Give the new direction something to prove

Enthusiasm is useful. It gets you started.

After that, I want something more substantial to judge the idea by. Will someone pay for it? Can it be delivered properly? Does doing the work feel as worthwhile as imagining the business?

A small, real test can teach you something that another month of planning will not.

That could mean delivering a carefully defined version of the offer to a suitable customer. It could mean having direct conversations with the people you want to serve. It should mean looking honestly at what those conversations and attempts reveal.

Interest is encouraging. Payment, delivery and a satisfied customer tell you different things. I would avoid treating them as interchangeable.

I would also decide how much time and money the test can reasonably use. Without a boundary, an experiment can slowly become an obligation nobody remembers choosing.

You are allowed to carry things forward

Starting again does not require pretending the earlier chapters were worthless.

The skills remain. So do the relationships, the practical lessons and the understanding of what you no longer want to repeat.

There is no prize for making the next chapter unnecessarily difficult to prove that it is new.

I know the appeal of the dramatic version. It makes a better announcement. The quieter version might give you more room to think, make fewer desperate decisions and build something you actually want to keep.

If you are considering a change, I would want you to have that room.

What can you begin testing now.. while keeping enough stability to make a good decision about what comes next?

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Nader alMaleh Nader alMaleh Twenty years. Six countries. 400+ businesses.
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